Rita (Johnson) Sundquist

Rita Marie (Johnson) Sundquist, 51, of Apple Valley, died peacefully on the morning of Aug. 14, 2012. Her final days were spent surrounded by family and friends who Rita had touched throughout her life. She was born March 10, 1961, in Stillwater.

Rita was a loving mother, grandmother, wife, sister and aunt to many nieces and nephews. She truly loved her family and friends to the fullest. Rita was very passionate about music, hiking, fishing, gardening, her pets and spending time with loved ones. Rita had left an imprint in everybody’s heart. She will be greatly missed.

Rita is survived by her loving husband, Scott DeMesy; father, Doug Johnson; son, Jeff (Megan); daughter, Julia; grandson, Elliott; three sisters, Laura, Mary, and Lisa, and father-in-law, Duane “Hap.” She was preceded in death by her mother, Maureen “Ree” Johnson; sister, Terry Kantos, and mother-in-law, Mary.

A memorial service is 11 a.m. Saturday, Aug. 25, with visitation one hour prior to the service at the Edina Chapel of the Cremation Society of Minnesota, 7110 France Ave. South in Edina, 952-924-4100.

In lieu of flowers, make memorials to the family for expenses and donations to N.C. Little Memorial Hospice.

  • Linda DeMesy

    Scott, Jeff & Julia, as you know I am deeply saddened for your loss. I want to express my sympathy to all 3 of you. I thought it would be nice to share a few stories I have between Rita and I. Although she wasn’t my “true” sister-in-law – we ALWAYS introduced each other as such. Rita liked all my girlfriends and she understood, as they do, that I never had a sister. So it was kind of “cool” to have her in my life. We sometimes even fought like sisters, but always made up.

    Rita was a GREAT cook – she taught me how to make center cut pork chops in a crock pot with cream of mushroom and cream of onion. Absolutely delicious recipe, and you use the sauce for the mashed potatos!!

    I think it was about 10 years ago, Rita caught a 9 lb. Walleye while we were up at the cabin. We already had dinner planned so she or we, all of us decided to make it on the grill. OMG was that Good!! Rita put cajun sprinkle on it, with butter and I dont know what else, and we all had it for an appetizer before dinner. It was the best walleye I had ever tasted !!!

    I also learned from Rita, by way of looking in her refridgerator at the house, if you want to be conservative, pack up your leftovers in a Rainbow or Cub plastic bag!! OMG – I use to look in that fridge and you couldn’t tell what was what. All you saw was plastic bags all over in the fridge. To this day, I think of her every time I open my fridge and see a plastic Cub bag. I have to chuckle.

    Thanks for the Great Memories Rita !!! These are just a few of them. I love you!

    Your “sister-in-law”, Linda

  • Scott DeMesy

    This letter is for just one person that I have loved for 22 years. I love you Rita and think of you every minute, hour and day. I feel like someone has crushed my soul and find life difficult now as my daughter Julia and my son Jeff and I cry for you. We know that your suffering has come to an end and we all miss you greatly. We know that we will all be there in heaven together some day but we miss you Rita so much now; and we all love you. Rita always use to say to me, will you love me forever? And of course, I said yes. Now it’s time to say it one more last time, to my lover Rita – I will always love you forever! Your lover, forever and ever and ever . . . Love, Scott DeMesy

  • Julia DeMesy

    Words cannot express how heartbroken I am or how it feels to loose the person you held closest to your heart. My mother was my everything and I have no idea how I will make it without her. This is the worst thing that could ever possibly happen to me. I thank the Heavens she is still in my heart and with me each and every step of the way in my life. She was the best person who ever lived, the best mom and best friend I will ever know. She cannot be replaced, she will remain my Queen forever.
    I love you Mommy.

  • Deborah Hallquist

    Dear Scott, Julia, Jeff and Elliot
    I am so sorry for the loss of your wife, mother and grandmother. She truly will be missed. I wished I had seen her more often as she was so fun to talk with. She was always so sweet to me! I hope you find comfort in your memories of her as I know you have many good ones and so do I.
    My thoughts and prayers are with you all, With love and sympathy, Deb
    Now I have something to say to Dear Rita,
    Dear Rita, Dear Dear Rita.
    You will always be a special part of our memories.Such a sweet voice and lovely blond hair. Life got too hard for you to bare. Wishing you peace as you walked away.Something you said to me when I saw you that last day. Dear Rita you went with grace and now you are in a better place. Remembered in the most loving way In our hearts you will always stay.
    With Sadness I say good-bye. ;(
    Love you! Deb